*THE PAIN IN LOVE* *#NEED&WANT 001*
I had sleepless night Whenever am unable to reach you,
A day wouldn't pass by without a thought of you,
A day without having a conversation with you use to be incomplete,
I considered you to be the air I inhale,
I felt without you I am living in a world with no air,
I saw myself as the moon that embraces the sun,
Simply because I considered myself to be the moon and you to be the sun.
Suddenly, we began to drift apart
At first I became weak,
But at the cause of my weakness,
I started gaining my strength,
Someone I couldn't go a day without talking to,
Became someone whose presence nor absence made a difference,
Most times I begin to wonder what led me into it,
After much thinking,
I discovered that I just LOVED without thinking,
I did nothing but to only love.
With the mindset that things will work out fine as long as there is love,
Forgetting the beginning of love is always sweet but it gets tough at the middle.
Love has always been of 3 stages,
*THE BEGINNING,THE MIDDLE & THE END.*
The beginning is always sweet simply because you ignore each other's flaws and you see yourselves as perfect for each other.
The middle is where the real test of love begins, then you start realising the things that should have been settled before venturing into it in the first place. At a point you get the feeling that I should have been a little patient,
I should have thought about this properly from the beginning,
The person you've always seen as flawless becomes someone with countless flaws.
The only way you can triumph over this stage is when both parties start working on their imperfections, you sit and discuss with each other on exactly what need to be done,
Where you both are lacking,
Where corrections need to be made,
Where you are both headed,
Once you both are able to do all this and resolve it in a positive way, then you have successfully made it to the last stage where your love is ready to stand the test of time. You can then conclude that you were made for each other.
Unable to overcome the middle stage hurts,
There won't be a bit of understanding left,
The more you try to resolve one fault the more another keeps popping out. You get tired of everything and nothing seems right.
The person you can't go a day without become someone you no longer need overnight.
All this happens when we rush in love,
The statement *"love conquers all"* turns out to be a false statement in most cases,
For love to conquer all,
It takes pain,
It takes risks,
It takes sacrifices,
It takes Tolerance,
Mutual understanding and lot more.
Only those who have overcomed all this are allowed to use the statement "love conquers all".
Being in love is the easiest but staying in love still remains the hardest.
*Written by: Fadare* *Oluwabusayo*
*©cravingpen✒.*
I had sleepless night Whenever am unable to reach you,
A day wouldn't pass by without a thought of you,
A day without having a conversation with you use to be incomplete,
I considered you to be the air I inhale,
I felt without you I am living in a world with no air,
I saw myself as the moon that embraces the sun,
Simply because I considered myself to be the moon and you to be the sun.
Suddenly, we began to drift apart
At first I became weak,
But at the cause of my weakness,
I started gaining my strength,
Someone I couldn't go a day without talking to,
Became someone whose presence nor absence made a difference,
Most times I begin to wonder what led me into it,
After much thinking,
I discovered that I just LOVED without thinking,
I did nothing but to only love.
With the mindset that things will work out fine as long as there is love,
Forgetting the beginning of love is always sweet but it gets tough at the middle.
Love has always been of 3 stages,
*THE BEGINNING,THE MIDDLE & THE END.*
The beginning is always sweet simply because you ignore each other's flaws and you see yourselves as perfect for each other.
The middle is where the real test of love begins, then you start realising the things that should have been settled before venturing into it in the first place. At a point you get the feeling that I should have been a little patient,
I should have thought about this properly from the beginning,
The person you've always seen as flawless becomes someone with countless flaws.
The only way you can triumph over this stage is when both parties start working on their imperfections, you sit and discuss with each other on exactly what need to be done,
Where you both are lacking,
Where corrections need to be made,
Where you are both headed,
Once you both are able to do all this and resolve it in a positive way, then you have successfully made it to the last stage where your love is ready to stand the test of time. You can then conclude that you were made for each other.
Unable to overcome the middle stage hurts,
There won't be a bit of understanding left,
The more you try to resolve one fault the more another keeps popping out. You get tired of everything and nothing seems right.
The person you can't go a day without become someone you no longer need overnight.
All this happens when we rush in love,
The statement *"love conquers all"* turns out to be a false statement in most cases,
For love to conquer all,
It takes pain,
It takes risks,
It takes sacrifices,
It takes Tolerance,
Mutual understanding and lot more.
Only those who have overcomed all this are allowed to use the statement "love conquers all".
Being in love is the easiest but staying in love still remains the hardest.
*Written by: Fadare* *Oluwabusayo*
*©cravingpen✒.*
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